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Originally posted by Italia
Hey there Lacoctel!
I am glad to see you were able to log on to the internet and read our posts! You know, as I was reading your last post...I had to  because you sound so much like me! You analyze EVERYTHING into the ground, until there is nothing left to think about! You try to play every possible case scenerio in your mind and think of the circumstances that will go along with it, and also the consequences  !!!
Sometimes this can be rather useless  and I have a feeling you know what I mean! My advice to you is, if the "cutie pie hombre" gave you his number and his e mail...he is interested! Period! No ifs, ands, or buts about it! Maybe he did "assume" that other guy was your novio, but who cares! Assumptions are useless! Prove him different. The attraction is obviously there, and I am not just speaking of a physical one. So in my opinion, fight those butterflies in the tummy, and CALL HIM! 
Let me know how it goes, and thanks for the "Bonne Natale"
Feliz Navidad!
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To Italia y Lorelie,
Hola!
Sorry it has taken me awhile to answer both you and Lorelie. Thanks for the advice.
I read your email the friday just before xmas eve. Well the reason I have not been as excited
about the artista is because he is an aquaintance of the "boyfriend from hell!'
And I know that boy friend went around saying lots of negative bull sh-t!
But Xmas eve w/artista and friends went ok. He's charming. But I have to see what
happens w/that ex boyfriend stuff. I have found that men actually listen a lot more
to those lies and hype than women do! Maybe it is a male bonding thing!
About the cutie pie journalist who I really liked A LOT and has no connections at
all to the evil ex-boyfriend, well I read your emails, mulled it around a night, the next
day the phone where I stay wasbn't working. Equipment foul ups like that happen
a lot in Venezuela!
So by the time they got stuff fixed up, it was today, the next day after Chrismas, I called 'papi' and his cell phone had been
temporarily diconnected! Darn. Hopefully he'll get it reconnected in another day or so.
So yea Italia is right in some ways I myself and often just mujeres [women] in
general over analyze opposite sex stuff too much. Sometimes just going w/the flow
is the best. Then look what ended up happening, my phone was messed up for a
few days and then his gets disconnected!
So you know, I'm not even gonna email him. He'll be out here til mid January, so I'll
give it a few more days to see if his cell phone gets back up and running. If not,
then I'll email!
Not to overanalyze again, but all I can do is think positive about the journalist.
Maybe this is some sort of destiny thing in the sense that something good isn't always
so easy. We're being challenged by these equipment failures I suppose. The wine
will be so sweet if and when we can finally have a glass together and chat one on one!
Feliz ano!