[lacoctel]

Wow this was quite a different posting! I don't quite recall if you wanted the p.o.v.s from the hombres or from all, but since we are testing out someone's new modem in here in VEnezuela, I'll give up some feedback.

I wouldn't know a whole lot about this because body wise I have always been in soccer and volleyball so I am not skinny at all, just naturally in shape after all those years of sports. I am like the same size everywhere, or everything matches with everything else. I am sort of medium everywhere. So I have never had a problem of men staring too much at my "upstairs" since it is not small and not large, but very medium like those mannekins in the store windows ya know, nothing out of the ordinary.

Men possibly stare a lot more at my legs and back side since I have long slightly athletic type legs and a medium size back side, not a big behind, yet I am not skinny at all. And they might stare at that and my long curly hair a lot too. None of that really get on my nerves, I just ignore them because I have too many other things going on that I am focused on. So maybe the more you ignore them and stay focused on something else the more they will feel stupid.

Also, just before I went to the study at the university, I had studied and been involved in live theatre and we focus on clothing a lot. Also being part French I have spent much time in France and they dress beautifully there, they are very fashionable. Maybe your answer is altering your style of dress a bit. DON'T GO UNDER THE KNIFE. Wear lots of black blouses that are not so low cut or tight. As you know black clothing slims us down. Black chiffon type blouses that are slightly loose fitting are still just as, if not more sexy than the tight stuff. You can still do tight, but instead of the blouse being tight which will surely cause some men to gawk at your breasts, wear a tight pair of levis or a tight skirt, that will devert their attention. And always wear a great pair of sexy shoes with those tight jeans or tight skirt, that will also help to devert their attention.

One study out of Habana Cuba indicated that when women are walking around the main things men notice as their walking is in fact their legs and back side because that is what is most noticable when they are out walking around. Women obviouisly don't walk with their breasts, so that part is kind of secondary. So just wear some loser fitting blouses, preferably black or dark colors which make that part of the body appear slimmer, and show off those legs instead!

Then when you meet a guy you are nuts about, for him and him only wear a slightly revealing blouse!

LUCK!