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Eddie,
My husband loves bread and butter...and many things of that nature. And he has gained a little weight. About 20 pounds since last fall. I also think he is allergic to wheat. But he doesn't want to accept it. He loves his pan frances and super cargado cafe latino in the morning. He reminds me of another Puerto Rican gentleman. Lol. YOU. With the coffee.
Since he is doing a lot of Aikido and trying for a black belt with a personal expert on it, who out of liking for him gives him one on one attention and throws him to the mat having the excess weight on him makes the falls uncomfortable. I told him he needs to cut off the carbs. And see if he is allergic to wheat. He stopped eating wheat for four days. And felt much better. His sinuses cleared up. And he lost 4-5 pounds. In terms of his brain tumor Eddie. It is bad news. And good news too. His tumor is not growing. It is staying stable. But it is located so deep in the brain the doctors say it is extremely dangerous to operate on. And he will have to live with it. Or risk some serious consequences. I never would have known about it or he either. If he hadn't have to have had a CAT scan to determine if his head was affected in a rearender accident he had a while back and the insurance company of the other guy hadn't insisted on evidence before paying for his 'pain and suffering'. In the CAT scan the tumor showed up. They told him and he went in for additional tests. We didn't know if it was growing and or cancerous. I was freaking out over that stuff. As you know, he is so forgetful about little things. Keys and getting the wrong ingredients about groceries I write on a list, forgetting debit cards in places, not remembering PIN numbers to ATM cards, lots of stuff like that. I would scold him for his lack of memory and I felt so bad....thinking maybe it was the tumor that was affecting it, and I was blaming him for something he could not control. He lied to me about telling me it wasn't important. That it would disappear by itself. I think he did not want me to worry about him too. Like I had about mom. And he was afraid that would impede him being considered for fatherhood. Oh Eddie, I would stick with him no matter what. Es el amor de mi vida. And the only man I have ever been with. Let me not get too emotional. I know you think it kind of foolish. So, I approach the subject of getting him to see specialists. He refuses. I don't know what to think. Should I force the issue? I pay a lot to have him on my health plan...it is the only real reason I stay where I am. I can make more money somewhere else. But it has a good health plan, and I like my co-workers and my boss is very nice. Not like that other tipa loca....from some other job I had. And that one paid more too. But this job atleast has really good dental insurance and health insurance. Though this year it went sky high, with less specialists...such as what he needs. I think I need to call in the troops. Mom and the entire family to pressure him to tell us what is going on. It might be I will have to accept it is inoperable. But the doctors told him that there are people who live their whole lives without trouble with tumors that are benign but unremovable.
GingerAlex I told you she was rabid statehooder loca. But no, you had to take her side...I was being hard on her. Lol. GingerGringa wants to kill populares. Military minded statehooder brainwashed woman. I did not like her comments about her not being puertorriquena. And her other nutty commentary. But hey, I know you did not know the woman.
Anything else you want to know, I will answer Eddie. About Stanley. He won't say anything another doctor won't say, and he is impeded by not having the Xrays and the additional information.
You may ask anything in this thread and I will answer you. I promise. I wish I could do the same to you. But I know I can't. See you later tonight.
Ginger gringa w
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