Feedback..

[y_santiago]

I just involuntarily ended a relationship with a female who was as corrupted on the inside as she was beautiful on the outside. I swore up and down that I could just be her friend, and everything was going good until the other day when she was totally horrible to me for no reason. Her kid boyfriend was feeling threatened by me in every aspect and she turned him against me saying that I was the problem with their relationship. Now, I hate them both and they hate me too, but I have never hated anyone that I loved. I am not used to not using forms of violence to make a point, because I am a former....well I'm just not used to it. I don't know what to do with them...I need feedback in the hopes that I can resolve this within myself, in a non-violent manner and to better myself for my new lady.

[americansista]

Y.Santiago,

Hello there love, First let me say that you really don't hate them, you despise them. You are not suppose to hate anyone, and you can speak you mind without being violent. If there is alot you have to say to them or her, then do it so that you can move on. If need be call them on the phone, that way you don't have to worry about any violence. To be honest sweetie, you really shouldn't do that, just go ahead and move on. That might be the hardest thing you do because you love her, but the longer you stick around fighting with them, the worst the situation is going to get. They say, "just because you love someone, doesn't mean you have to be with them", and that's true!

Be with someone who wants to be with you, and not someone who is going to always make excuses. You seem like a nice gentleman so do what Y. Santiago has to do to be happy! I wish you luck, now and in the future!

If you ever want to talk you can e-mail me at chelle2000_us@yahoo.com, be good until then. No violence, that's never the answer, talk it out or be a real man an walk away!!


AMERICANSISTA