It very confusing

[Nina_Chiquita]

I'm in this relationship which is confusing. I love him and I'm sure he loves me. Maybe I'm just insecured but sometimes I feel he with someone else. They could be friends but that I feel he is more intersted in her or having more fun with her then with me. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him. I mean it could be me. We been together for almost four years and maybe he's tired. I really hope not. He says he loves and be with me. But at times I feel he thinking about someone else. I don't know what to do. He is a very handsome man. I love him and I don't want to lose him. What sould I do.

[princesita]

Hello Nina ! If your in a relationship which it sounds like you are. Talking is a major thing. Have you talked to him and tell him how you feel? My husband when we were together had a female friend. I am sorry but I am the jealous type all the way. Not saying that's good. But I am going to be honest. I said if you want me in your life I am all the friend that you need. We've been marride for 9 yrs now. But if you really have a problem let him know then go from there. Some people need to have friends. Which is fine but if they go out. Guess what you need to go too. If there's nothing to hide then that should be fine. You feel it out.

[Brenda]

I 2nd that motion!!!!!

This is my thought: If you feel something is there you HAVE to address it. You'll never know unless you ask. You say you have been together for four years.... You both need to sit and talk about where you stand. If it's over, he needs to let you know and you need to MOVE ON>>> Do not sweat it. No man is worth crying or loosing sleep over.

Been there, Done that!

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Mamichula

[Jose_Luis]

As Princesita said, talking is a major part of it. But it's who you are talking to that counts. Your boyfriend cannot answer all your questions because in your mind and in your heart, you wouldn't know if he's saying the truth. So I have a suggestion for you. I don't know you, but there is someone upstairs who you can talk to. He answers everything and brings guidance, rest, peace, and joy to those who ask for it. He knows the truth for He is the Truth. Speak to Him mama, even if you never did before. Now would be a perfect time to.

If you want to speak to me more, my e-mail address is xut444@aol.com.

God Bless and rest assure that Christ has the answers to your questions.

Take care,
Jose Luis