Why does it hurt so bad?

[Mamiluv6969]

Why is it that bad things happen to good people.
It seems that no matter what I do im getting hurt!
I was young and I thought it was love when i got with Jay and now I havent seen him in a year and he has a baby with some one else
I tryed my luck again when I met Pj .
I thought...hes boricua he has a good heart I wont get hurt.
I have never been hurt more in my life verbally phyisicaly .
Now im woundering where do I turn when Jay is not only in my head but my heart everyday and I worry about pj because he doesnt think right.
SO Dime...Donde Esta Los Boriqua Papi chulos?!
Siempre Amor
Sarah
Email me at mamiluv69@hotmail.com
or maria14375@yahoo.com

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Siempre Amor
Sarah


[This message has been edited by Mamiluv6969 (edited 05 November 1999).]

[princesita]

Hola Mamiluv: Honestly it looks like your in two relationships that your not happy in. I say leave them both. You might be in luv but are you happy ? You have to be happy in a real;tionship for it to work. If he;s not meeting your needs move on . You dont want to be unhappy. What is it that you want to do? Start fresh or try to work things out with one of them ? Do you see a positive realtionship coming out of any of them? No matter whatabuse is no good. Once they do it they think it's ok. Plus you don't want to get hurt. It's not worth it. Let me know what you think.

[Brenda]

Hey Girl!
Let's talk Mami-language. You are mamiluv and I am mamichula. You need time for you. If you see in most of these cases I give that same advice.
We need to know who we are first before falling for someone else. Get to know your likes and your dislikes and then look at your life and make whatever changes need to be made. Then you can say this is the type of MAN that I want to be with. Trust me, you will find him. Set standards for yourself and follow through.
I'm not sure of your age, but if you are dealing with boys, that is what boys do. Deal with a real man and you will see the difference.
Rule of life: ask your self this question,
Do you need this person in your life?

Talk to you soon...

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Mamichula

[Mamiluv6969]

The thing with Jay ....I havent seen him o a year he took something very speacial and left with out a trace ..but I cant get him out of my head for that reason. Just last night I dreamt of him and people are always talking about him and bringing up the past to me . He is supposed to have a child now ith some other girl which hurst alot . I thought since he was 21 he would be more mature but no. With Pj its like I have to act like his other and Im tired of it ,I told him I need time for me and hes still pushing. No hes not perfect pero, I do love him so it hurst . I htink I just dont want to be in a relationship anymore its too stressfull.
This weekend is homecoming and Imgoing out with a new guy Justin and we will see what happens. Im not jumping in to anything to fdast.
I just dont know how to get them
( Jay ,Pj) out of my head esp. jay its very hard to get over him ad I have all these feelings that I dont know how to deal with im so confussed I have so much stress in my life and Im only 17. I had this guy come up and read my aoura like a spiritual pyscic thing and he knew I was in a car accident and all the bad things from my past and said I have dark forses pushing me to fall likea dark shadow or somehting and he said im going to get sick next october for 5 months and it could be fatal.
Now I have that worring me plus its my senior year I just dont know where to turn.
Sorry I just wrote so much I have alot in my head hope to hear form you

[princesita]

You said it girl. It's your senior year. You have so much to deal with alone graduation, prom and last year to enjoy before you get thrown into the real world girl . Listen honey take care of you ! That's it. If you don't think these men are going to make you happy and give you what you want they you need to m,ove on. Your so young. Take it from someone that has been with the same person since I was 12 and I am now 27. Take care of you and enjoy life. It's too short ot be worrying about men. As far as what they told you about your health. Do you really believe them? If you want to talk we can give me your e-mail add.Take care of you cause you know noone else will baby.

[Mamiluv6969]

Youve been with your man since yo were 12???
Thats crazy are you married now?
The adress is mamiluv69@hotmail.com .
Thanks for all the advise!



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Siempre Amor
Sarah

[El_Pintor]

There are alot of men and women out there who get into relationships for the hell of it. But there are some people out there who really want someone to love. Someone to talk to. A person to hold on those cold nights. Some people spend there whole life looking for that special someone. While you are out there looking, have fun. Let your hair down. Stay up late dancing or hanging out with your friends. The most important person in the world is you. And if a man wants to hurt you show him the door. Maybe he will realize what he's lost and he will change. Love is where you find it. You can't make it.
Love , Your Boricua Brother
El Pintor

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Poet In The Sand