love hurts

[migtaz2g]

hello im a 22 year old hispanic male from hartford ct. when iwas 12 i met this girl we went out till i was 15 she started seeing another man i started seeing another girl we both have kids frome theese people and in 1995 we got back together in we had plans to get married we had a kid together and lived together since but in agust she started seeing another man who moveed to ct. from p.r. she came back to me 3 times since then but she recently left me again in june 1999 she was my first love and still i love her and she says she loves me but i dont know what to do i try to meat other girls but i hardly go out because im working the worst thing is is that i helped this man out trying to find an apartment and look how he repays me well thanks for reading this and please send me advise if you know any single ladies who want a romantic guy let me know thanks

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miguel ortiz aka migtaz

[XENIA]

miguel if you keep taking her back you are just hurting yourself in the process. it is understandable that you love her but im sorry to say it is obvious that she just uses you whenever she has problems with her other man. you should not let anyone abuse of your feelings i think it is time to let go. if you are not ready then just act like you are and give her an ultimatum say im fed up with this "it is him or me" if she truly loves you and her feelings are like yours then you know who she will choose if not then keep it going.
wish you luck and if i can help you with anything else just let me know.

[dioclecianoayala]

I like the title"LOVE HURTS,it really does. that's the evil that men do.love is pure dont stop loving your kids they are inocent.I have only one side of the story,yours. I sure will like to see her side of the story.PERO brou como dicen por ahi,sigue pa'l frente que mas alante vive GENTE. good luck

[spanishrose]

One thing you must remember your still young you have a whole lifetime ahead of you!!!! Things seem hard now but take it from me I was there 20 years ago. I would have gave my
life for him, but now I'm buying my own home I work while he's in and out of jail and different women still saying that I was the one who got away. but in time I was the smart one. remember time heals all wounds keep your chin up the right girl for you just might be the one who is giving you her shoulder to cry on!!!!!!!!

[Brenda]

Hey sweetie... I really feel bad for you because you know, I know how you feel. My sister is writing you too.

Don't let her play games with you. You sound like a real nice guy and you don't deserve this type of treatment. Only you know what is best for you and only you can decide what is best.

Listen to all of us women who are giving you this advice... You are now on the other side... It is usually women who are in your shoes. Tell me how you feel about that.

You should put this in the open board section. You'll get a lot of advice there too.

Always, Keep your head up. :-)

[princesita]

That is allot. But you know something your 22 years old. You still have your whole life ahead of you. She doesn't seem to really know what she wants so you need to just move on. I know it's easier said then done but keep busy. Hang out with some friends. Don't let her know how you feel. She already knows. So just handle yours. One thing that you should ask yourself is that does she really make you happy ? Is she everything that you need in a women. Go out and meet women. The way I look at it if it was meant to be it will be. Whether that is next week, next month or next year. It will be, but until then do your thang. She is ! So do things that will make you happy and hoepfully it will all get better soon for you. If she realizes that your moving on she might really start taking you serious and if she doesn't. It was her loss...

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PRINCESITA

[SEXYE]

Hi Miguel, let me tell you something from a Woman's point of view leave that woman alone she doesn't know what she wan all she's doing is playing with your feelings she probably saying look at this fool i can do this to him, this is because you are allowing her to do so. you need to put stop to this. Why don't you put your email address. So we can email you. You see i know what you are going trhough cause i was there once.

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SEXYE