Why can't i let her go?

[Puerto_rican]

My heart has been broken so many time by the only love i have ever know. I am 16 ( i know i'm young) and i recently broke up with the only love i have ever know, and we were together for a year and two months. She kept lieing to me about being with this other guy. Going to his house. I totally dropped her after the 100,000 lie, and i have been away from her for about 2 months. I think i want her again, BUT she still talks to that guy, and eats lunch wiht him every once in a while. I literally wanna kill him ( but i would never do that?) and i can't stand to have her near him, or even talking to him. I don't understand why she kept up communication with him even thought he was one of the main reasons we broke up. She says she loves me, and can't live without me...check this...she even tried to commit suicide...but yet...she still talks to this ******* white guy. I swear i hate his ****in guts. Ladies, and gents....give me some advice por favor...i need to know if i should waste my time on her, or should i look for a nice puerto rican woman that will treat me right. Remember that i still l;ove her with all of my heart...oh, and to add to the DRAMA, she might be pregnant!!!!!!!!! Help me out gente!!! PLEASE...and if there are some ladies out there reading this that are interestaed...please don't hesitate to show it. I love you all......Boricua Por Vida

[Marcos_Crespo]

Hello:
I think is time for you to move on. I know that when you have your first love and you lose it, is hard to let go, but realize that you are only 16, life goes on. There are many fish in the sea and I guarantee that if you move on and have a little patience, you will find a nice girl who will love you as much as you will love her.

God Bless You

[LadyBoss1]

Hello Puerto rican,
I agree with Marcos move on. She knows you still love her and will only use you. It will continue to hurt but there will be another, I thought I'd never find another and believe me when you're not looking for Love, Love finds you. Try to keep busy with school and other friends, who knows you may meet another who appreciates you thru 1 of those friends.

[BoricuaServer]

Puerto_rican:

Don't you hate it, when a bunch of oldies is telling you what you should do? Well, here's the oldest of those oldies --its been a long time since I drank of the waters at 16, but papá, I have to ditto Marcos and LadyBoss.

Of course, when someone tells you, "you'll find another," that's one thing you don't want to hear. You only want THAT GIRL, and you don't want to hear anything else. But what they're really trying to tell you
--if I might be so bold as to think I can speak for them-- is that THIS IS NOT THE END. There is hope, there are other fish in the sea--like Marcos said. Relax, pronto ventran.

For now, let the pain heal; and like a broken bone made strongher by its healing, you too will be made strongher by the pain.

Notice that neither three of us has even broched the issue about a possible pregnancy.
We didn't forget. We just know that often young people compound a mistake. In other words, if there is a pregnancy--and presumably unplanned, the one thing you do not want to do is make the situation worst by forcing a relationship. If there is a baby and if the child is yours, you can always love and support the child without getting into a relationship that may ultimately harm the child psychologically. And in any case, if the relationship is real then waiting until after the birth will only stregthen your love for each other. In a stressful situation is not the time to make such decisions.

[Jason_Rainey]

P R do yourself a favor and find someone that respects you enough not to lie to you at least.She obviously has a problem that you shouldn't have to deal with.If she's pregnant with someone else kid forget about her because it brings too much baggage; you
don't want to deal with those problems at your age believe me.

Hang out with your friends and have fun;maybe one of them is the right girl for you and you don't know it yet.If all of your friends are guys maybe one of their girlfriends knows someone that
you might be interested in.

[BoricuaServer]

This is just a comment:

In my years I have encountered any number of individuals. Some who keep it ReaL, others who front.

On these pages, on the P.R. Bulletin Board, I would expect brutal ReaL-ness. If for no other reason than because we really don't know each other; We really have nothing to lose.

I can accept anything individuals may write or be. I may not always agree with other, but I will accept them at face value - unless, they front. Than, they are dissing me. And that, I CAN NOT ACCEPT.

BE ReaL; Keep it ReaL.

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[This message has been edited by BoricuaServer (edited 14 March 2000).]

[El_Criollo]

Because you are an oversexed young fool.

What do you do besides watching MTV? Do you read? Do you go to school? What are you going to make of yourself: a permanent dependant on your parents like the Holiday Inn commercial?

There are millions of girls out there, and one life to live, so make the most of it, 'cause in the next few years your chances at making something out of your life are going to disappear.

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