WhY d0 I trUst the BoyZ wH0 huRt me!?

[PuErT0_RiCaN_priNcEsS]

hey everyone!! i have this big problem... i am i love with this kid!! and we went out for five months and then we were just dating i guess for 3 months after that... well recently we have been fooling around pretty seriousely and i just dont want to accept the fact that he dosnt like me and that he is using me. everyone around me understands. but when we are together he is so sweet to me... i dont understand how someone can hurt someone that loves them so much? recently he kissed a gurl in the same nite that he was with me... and i found out and got really mad... but he was like.. well its not like were going out.. do i have a reason to be mad at him? he leads me on like crazy!! i know that he dosnt really like me but deep down inside i cant get over that and i start to think that he is just hiding his feelings. and he told me the only reason we dont go together is because he dosnt want a gurlfriend right now.. bc he has sports and everything like that. But after he said this to me.. he asked out some other girl. i need to know whats going on.. any body have an advice.. am i stupid for being with him?!?!

[mamichula]

MAMI,
I HATE TO SAY IT BUT HE'S USING YOU. I'VE BEEN THROUGH SITUATIONS LIKE THIS BEFORE. YOU'RE GIVING UP THE DRAWS WITHOUT HIM HAVING TO BE COMMITTED TO YOU. THAT'S WHAT A LOT OF YOUNG GUYS LOOK FOR. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU GUYS ARE IN JR HIGH OR HIGH SCHOOL. IF YOU WANT A ROMANCE GET RID OF HIM & FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL RESPECT YOU, EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS TO YOU, GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT MEANING RELATIONSHIP WISE & ALSO SEXUALLY(IF YOU'RE DOING IT, PLEASE USE PRECAUTION). IT WORKS BOTH WAYS NOT JUST ONE. THE ATTENTION HE GIVES YOU WHEN YOU'RE TOGETHER IS HIS WAY OF MANIPULATING YOU. IF HE GIVES YOU WANT YOU WANT TO HEAR THEN HE'S GONNA GET SOMETHING HE WANTS IN RETURN. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER, BESIDES YOU'RE YOUNG & THERE ARE BETTER MEN OUT THERE!! MA BE STRONG & INDEPENDENT! I HAVE A FRIEND SORT OF IN YOUR SITUATION(BEING BRAINWASHED BY SOME LOSER) & LET ME TELL YOU IT'S SICKENING TO SEE WHAT'S GOING ON. YOU'RE FRIENDS ARE GOING TO SEE WHAT'S GOING ON BUT YOU WON'T BECAUSE YOU ONLY WANT TO RECOGNIZE THE GOOD, NOT THE BAD. YOU'RE A VERY SPECIAL WOMAN LET A SPECIAL MAN WHO UNDERSTANDS & WANTS THE BEST FOR YOU TO BE IN YOUR LIFE!! NOT A SCRUB!!

[El_Criollo]

Take it from a guy: if we can get sex from a girl, we will be the nicest of guys. We will say anything, do anything, and sometimes even give our lives away for sex. But it doesn't come straight from the heart it comes straight from the flesh. DO NOT TRUST THE WORDS OF A GUY WHO HAS SEX IN THE BACK OF HIS MIND WHEN HE IS DEALING WITH YOU!!!

When a girl gives her body away she usually gives her heart too. Not the way we guys are made. That is why marriage was invented so long ago, to avoid exploitation.

Remember the old story about commitment: about the hen and the hog? She gave an egg, but the hog gave himself for that breakfast; he was committed.

The same way with sex, but this time the girl is the one that gives, and the guy doesn't give much away.

If I were you I would take a long vacation somewhere else, and go get a career, or anything that will keep me busy from falling into the hands of people who are only trying to serve themselves from my body, who are only seeking to exploit me not for who I really am, but for a part of my body they can use.

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desde_el_Jurutungo_de_Bairoa

[CACIQUE]

I was seen your profile and you wrote for interest guys!!!

you got to find something else to do like el criollo dijo before. the only things that we value are the things that are hard to get!!

you have to think we you at!!

gotta go cuidate my princess

cacique
100% Boricua

[yarelis_12]

Criollo and Cacique,
I agree with what you said about you as men but I think there's no reason for a woman to keep her attention on other things to avoid being with a man that only thinks about sex because it's up to her if she wants to be with him or not. You're saying that as if women were meant to do that everytime they date any guy. Maybe you'll try but if she doesn't want to do it, then she won't do it.
At least that's my case. I won't anything I don't want to no matter what.

[chicaborinquena3]

El-Criollo no seas tan cruel con las mujeres Que estas haciendo conmigo ,me estas enamorando No hay muchos hombres como tu que saben lo que una mujer siente,o sufre cuando la cojen de juego la mayoria de las veces nos engañamos nosotras misma y creamos un mundo de ilusion y todo es romantico todo es perfecto pero realidad nos da una bofetada en la cara y nos despierta lamentablemente muy tarde.Pero a la ves que tu sabes lo que sentimos muchos hombres saben lo que hacen,poro no los detienen Ellos deben poner las cartas en la mesa ,ser sinceros(muchos hombres tienen que buscar en el dicionaria pues no saben el significado de esa palabra)HA-HA Ahora la cruel soy yo.A todo esto gracias por tus palabras,tu buen consejo.Como mujer no te aseguro que aprendamos la lession El-Criollo TE QUIERES CASAR CONMIGO?.Contestam en (buscando al hombre perfecto.com) sillyme!

DIANA xoxo