Boricua can get any love

[ALS]

Men just give me no love. I treat them with the utmost respect and all I get is grief. Can't find any P.R. papis
and morenos got attitudes. What's up with that?
What can a girl do?

[ElGuapo]

Probably u r looking for a good man in the wrong place...

[ElGuapo]

Don't complain for your own ignorance...

[ALS]

Originally posted by ElGuapo
Don't complain for your own ignorance...

Your reply is about as feo as u r...
The very reason women have trouble with men....

[Leticia_g]

ALS,

Maybe you are trying too hard. Take a couple of steps backward and concentrate on yourself. Built yourself up by doing things you like without thinking that you need a man, because in reality you dont need one. You can go to the movies alone, read books, exercise, meditate, join social clubs. These things will help you discover who you are, the more you develop yourself the more attractive a person you will become because you will love your company. When you aren't looking, that is when you usually find someone. It is true that some men are players, however not all of them are. I always think you have to have confidence in yourself, portray that you really don't need them and then maybe you will have the chance to meet some men in a personal basis. Get to know them as friends, don't have interest in them as anything else, that will give you a chance to be more selective. I don't know your age, but I have two daughters and I have always adviced them. They are very wise and selective. A man appreciates a woman that is selective over one that seems like she just wants a man.

Good Luck!

[ALS]

I'm not trying at all it just seem the ones I meet r ok in the beginning and fizzle after that. I already do everything alone. I am tired of the confusion and indecision they have. Just issues,issues. Some say I am too independent. I have been married before and have 3 daughters all grown. I don't look my age so 25-40 yr. old males hit on me and then the issues come to play. I don't need the drama. You feel me?
Thanks for the input it does help but sometimes its hard to understand the male gene pool.

Originally posted by Leticia_g
ALS,

Maybe you are trying too hard. Take a couple of steps backward and concentrate on yourself. Built yourself up by doing things you like without thinking that you need a man, because in reality you dont need one. You can go to the movies alone, read books, exercise, meditate, join social clubs. These things will help you discover who you are, the more you develop yourself the more attractive a person you will become because you will love your company. When you aren't looking, that is when you usually find someone. It is true that some men are players, however not all of them are. I always think you have to have confidence in yourself, portray that you really don't need them and then maybe you will have the chance to meet some men in a personal basis. Get to know them as friends, don't have interest in them as anything else, that will give you a chance to be more selective. I don't know your age, but I have two daughters and I have always adviced them. They are very wise and selective. A man appreciates a woman that is selective over one that seems like she just wants a man.

Good Luck!

[Leticia_g]

Being that you are older and most likely closer to my age since my daughters are grown also, I would tell you to enjoy your own company more. Men especially younger ones don't want an older woman for a serious relation. I hate to say this but I truly believe that age makes a difference. Try to stick to men a little closer to your age. I tend to look younger than my age also, therefore I feel for you. I myself cannot find any attraction in a man that can't hold a conversation or for the matter have anything in common with my generation. You might feel different. Being independent also creates a problem for many men, they can't handle it only because they are insecure. It no barings on you. Maybe you should just stick to older mature men that have experienced life enough to not feel threatened by a independent woman. lol

I agree with you that it is impossible to understand the male genes but that is what makes them interesting.

Good luck, I'm sure that somewhere out there you'll find a man that has the maturity level to handle an independent woman.