Tired of the lies

[Jennifer67]

I am just out of a five year relationship. My boyfriend just couldn't keep his hands or anything else to himself. Why can't guys just love one girl? I was good to him, didn't cheat, but it didn't matter. I am so sick of guys and their inability to be faithful to just one person. Trust is a very valuable thing and hard to give, and so easily lost.

[chicky]

Hello Jennifer,
I'm new here...I read your post, sorry to hear about your broken heart...but don't go blaming all the men out there.
I went through all of that many years ago. But keep your chin up...theres bound to be someone out there that will give you the respect you deserve. I've been with my husband for 12 yrs now and he treats me like a man should treat a woman with love & respect. Before that, my life was a complete mess...the other person I was with cheated on me, beat me and made my life a living hell. Now I'm married & living my life to the fullest. what I'm trying to say is...give yourself time & the right one will come along. I built a wall big enough where no man would ever hurt me again..no one could break that wall down. Until I met my husband...he understood me and I trust him 100%. (Not all men are alike)
I used to think like that ... not anymore. "Good luck".
my e-mail is maggie@gensoftdes.com or you can just reply at this post.

[Edited by chicky on 22nd August 2001 at 21:11]

[Italia_Lena]

Hi Jennifer67,

I feel your pain, totally can relate to your feelings. Im sorry that you are going thru it, but you must believe that there is someone else out there who will treat you with the utmost respect that you deserve, never settle for less than a real man!

It took me over a year after my ex broke up with me, to finally start dating a decent man. He is the most respectful guy I have ever dated and hopefully that doesn't change! Keep your head up high amiguita...things will get better