there is too many obstacles

[sendali]

Before all, let me say you hi, it's my first post.
I hope that you'll understand me because I don't really
speak Spanish or English languages... bad !
But i'm here and i wanna tell you why my heart doesn't feel good.

I felt in love with my best-friend (not the better way to introduce a love story...) when we were in school, it was 1 year before now. During this time, I used to be conciliant and open-minded with her, because she has got a different culture, religion and principles than me (she's tunisian and
i'm french).
Now we left because this relationship was too complex to conciliate. I explain :
i ever received some death menaces from her homefriends (especially boys) who think that 'infidels' couldn't touch an islam girl.
We usually met in secret because her sister used to tell bad stories to their family, in order to recall her in the 'great way' like she say.

During 1 year, we suffered because of the situation, but i can say that it was a great love story.
Finally (I will go in 10 min to my job) we were forced to break, because of this strangling context...
Since our last date, I'm really sad that my lifewoman (i'm convinced) left, but i'm really sure she should have more tried to talk with her parents in order to get a little more acceptation.
I was about to convert into islam, but finally I don't by her own.

It was an impossible love...

Sorry for the expression, again
Thank you for your feelings...

[Italia_Lena]

First of all let me say, you didn't do so bad speaking the English language!! Your efforts were noticed here! Welcome to Puerto Rico.com!

From what I can gather in your post here, you have been in love with an Islamic girl for about a year right? Your relationship has been very tough due to such cultural and religous differences.
My advice to you is not to give up with her. If there is a way you could write to her without contacting her family, let her know your true genuine feelings for her. It is sad that her family treats her that way. Does she live in the States or in the Middle East? I know you are in France so I wasn't sure as to where she lived. If you are not too far away from her, maybe you can contact her just one more time. If the both of you are in love with eachother it would be well worth fighting for her. Everyone deserves happiness in love.

Good Luck!

[sendali]

First of all, thank you for your answer.
And many thanks for your support about my
english language.

Yes, she's an islamic girl. She lives in Tunisia. I'm not afraid of her friends or her parents, but i'm afraid for her. His father has a great influence in her country, he is respected, and first he is determined. There is no hope by discussing with him.
I could see her in secret, if she wanted, but she's too afraid of her father, and I understand why. His family is all for her.

In France, there are many people from Morocco, Algeria and
Tunisia. One of the news in France is one father who killed his daughter because she tried to live with a French. (you know what is my feelings by seeing it on TV).
I'm not selfish. We are not in a movie. I decided to stop in order to free my mind. I ever lost many things, I don't want to lose more. I'm young, also. It's sad but it is the better answer I can give.

I met someone last time. I have many hopes about her.
She lives in Germany. Life continues and I smile again

byebye

[Italia_Lena]

Im very excited and happy that you were able to make your decision, and from what you have said here about her family and her father's powers it seems to be the right decision.

Have a good day and enjoy PuertoRico.com!!

[sendali]

Thank you so much, Italia_lena.

(I just want to say it to you)

sendali