I'AM ALWAYS IN A ARGUMENT WITH ME PARENTS JUST BECOUSE IAM BISEXUAL

[LPZPR]

COULD SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO BECOUSE IAM BISEXUAL AND I'VE BEEN WITH MY G/F FOR 5 YEARS NOW AND MY MOTHER DOSNT ACCEPT ME BEING BISEXUAL SHE JUST DOSENT WANT TO ACCEPT ME FOR WHO IAM COULD SOMEONE E-MAIL ME AND TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO PLEASE
THANK U
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[IDeJesus]

LPZPR:

Live a productive and meaningful life. Be independent and self-sufficient. This way you will have something to feel proud of even if noone approves of your choices in life.

Your mother doesn't have to accept your lifestyle. She just has to respect your right to choose for yourself. Unfortunately, some people have a hard time respecting other people's choices. It is hard for a parent to approve of their child's lifestyle when it appears to them that that lifestyle is damaging. The best way to gain respect is to respect yourself. Forget about acceptance or approval because you may never get them and you shouldn't need them to go on and live a productive and successful life. Your family will come around once they see that you are happy, healthy and productive.

Good luck to you and may God bless you.

[This message has been edited by IDeJesus (edited 15 September 2000).]

[cookie1052]

I can understand what you are going through.but you need to understand that all parents only want what is best for their kids.I know because my daughter is gay..
I just want her to be happy with what she chooses to do.Its a hard an cruel world and reality not to many people are nice to other people they were cruel to my daughter and i was very sad because of it.She went through alot of stuff before she came out of it o.k.
I wish every person can have her strenght and know who she really is...You should communicate more with them without making an issue about it. we (parent) are not the enemy.Because soon enought everything becomes old and people have to except who you are..

[spanishlovexx21]

Hola seems like your mother isn't comfortable w/ your sexuality or what sex you choosen to like. You can't help that you are bisexual that's what you choosen to be. You should be proud for who you are. My cousin is a lesbian & my aunt & uncle took them awhile to come around. But they had to look on the good factors she went to college & graduate from college. She has her masters degree & also she has her own place. So her parents had to come around one day. I think it will just take time for your parents to come around. But she should accept you for who you are. Your always going to be your mothers daughter. Nothing will ever change that. I guess your mother wants you to get married have kids one day but you should be proud that your bisexual & never hide your sexuality.

[hotnena]

DON'T WORRY JUST GO ON ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR MOTHER WILL LEARN WITH TIME TO ACCEPT YOU. MY AUNT WAS LIKE THAT WITH MY COUSIN BUT EVENTUALLY SHE LEARNED TO ACCEPT HER DAUGHTER FOR WHO SHE IS. JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO AND DON'T WORRY WHAT OTHERS THINK OR SAY.

HOTNENA

YOU MAY EMAIL ME HERE OR nena767us@yahoo.com

[chola927]

Relax and don't worry so much. One thing I'm learning about life is not to worry about what anyone else thinks. LIFE IS TOO SHORT!! If you spent all your time worrying about what momi thinks and let people get into your business, you are going to be one miserable individual. And you ARE an individual. If being Bi is your choice... Have A Happy! Be happy with who you are no matter what. I learned that very valuable lesson right here on puertorico.com ( thanks Nachos..). You're the one who has to live your life. You screw around and live it for someone else, you're going to find out you've wasted it. Live life to the fullest, be happy, and live now. Sometimes it's all you've got.
Chola 927