why do the new Millenium men still don't get it???

[Hatillana]

I am really concern about men my age range (25-35) because most of them still donno what they want or even what they are looking for in life. Women seem to get more stable, mature and professionally prepared earlier than men. Hmmm that's probably why I still have not found Mr. Right, even when i don't ask for too much, just the ecsensial.

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Maria E. Ortiz-Rios
"Hatillana"

[rolandoq]

Hatillana where are you from and maybe you ought to upgrade on your search for your mr right, there are some of us who really got it going on and basically all we are looking for is a teammate if you know what I mean and in case you do not.
Life is basically fun, you meet a person you share views, ideas and plans then you put them into play with the idea that when you pass on to the next life while you are on your last breath you can reflect on what a beautiful life you had.
Personally I have not found ms right also and is because most of the women that I meet are
professionals who are financially stable but have control issues, me on the other hand just want to control myself and all I can do to be as suscefull as I can be and will not tolerate (under any circumstance) anyone to control me since my agenda is basically easy and trouble free.
And by the way, has anyone seen or heard from mr N.K

[Hatillana]

Hey Mr.N.K, well I should say that when I mean stable, I say that I am ready to devote to someone special see? I do not have control problems like other women that you mentioned hehe
Anywho, I am from Puerto Rico. How old are you? Where are you from?

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Maria E. Ortiz-Rios
"Hatillana"

[roc911]

hi their , to say that men are not ready is not true. i'm a man who's looking for the right woman and sometimes it's the woman that's not ready . i love to chat with you some more sometime . you can leave me a mail.

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[rolandoq]

This is for HATILLANA:
I'm not NK( Nalga Killer), he is one of the member's in this site that althought he is very roar with his comments(street lingo) he makes me laugh and that is why I said has anyone seen or heard from him.
I live in NYC(Brooklyn) and you can e-mail me at rolandoq@yahoo.com and we can share info and maybe give each other suggestions which will help us in life.
I'm always open for suggestions, you see I'm not perfect and also I'm a firm believer of two things.
1)When you listen you learn
2)The only dumb question is the one that is never asked.
Hasta la vista baby.

[jsalas]

I totally agree with u, i feel that men are not ready as women are, as for me i am ready to settle down and be with one women... I like to relax and go to the movies and enjoy myself... I am an open minded man who is looking for a women who wants to settle down and have a good relationship.. I treat any women with respect and understanding.. i love to travel to Puerto Rico and chill..
if u are intrested please e-mail me at
jsalas3579@aol.com

[IDeJesus]

Hatillana:

Men in that age group may not appear to know what they want but believe me they know. And they are getting what they want. Think about this; men in that age group can date 2 or 3 women at a time, if they can afford it, without having to commit to any of them and they get what they want. They get sex and if a man can drink the milk without buying the cow they will. Why should a man settle for one woman, when he can have a variety of them without having the responsibility that comes with picking a lifetime partner. It's not the men who don't know what they want it's the women who think that they can get a man to commit to them by putting out. Ask any truthful man
what it is he wants from a woman and he'll tell you, and if he gives you a line like, " I want an independant woman, who can take care of herself but can still share with me" don't fall for it. Men want the best of both worlds, they want the privileges of marriage, without the responsibilities and hassle. They want a woman who gives them sex when they want it but doesn't hassle them when they are not up to it. MEN WANT TO BE HAPPY. Men are just a little slicker at getting what they want than women.
I suggest that its not men alone who need to change, women need to do a lot of changing.
To women I say, spend more time learning about yourself and the world around you, how you fit in, and what your mission is and less time worrying about whether your knight in shining armour is going to show up. If more women go along with their merry lives without obsessing so much over men - Men will have no choice but to get a little more serious about their treatment of women and intentions with women. That is if they ever want to be in there company.

That's my two cents.