Brenda, you know who I am. I think if I am correct, sex is important to both men and women. The difference is that women are more relational than men are. It's easier for a man to just want to have sex and release energy or tension than it is for a woman to do. Like you are saying, woman want romance and passion and lots of foreplay (at least I would). Men think with their !@#$%, women think with their brains. A man can look at a woman and be physically attracted to them and for them sex will come naturally. They don't care if she's an idiot or trashy. Women on the other hand would like a man to have some type of intelligence and be aware of her needs in and out of the bedroom.
But, I might add that we need to keep it real by saying that sometimes we see that certain man and say just what a man would say "Damn! I would love to get with that!" You know what I'm saying. We're all adults. We all know who we want to stimulate mentally, emotionally and physically. But sometimes we just need to be broken off. KEEP IT REAL B!!!!