How do you know you found the ONE?

[Kinetic]

I'm vexxed...
Lemme know some of the techniques or "tests" you use to find out if the one you're with, or want to get with, is the ONE that you think will be your wifey or husband in the futuro..is it like something you feel the second you see them? or more like something they say?

curious as hell...cuz I'm knida in the same predicament, na'mean?

wepa quenepa man aka 'netic

[Italia_Lena]

Hola Kinetic

As you already no from posting that lovely poem to me (thanks by the way) I have been hurt badly. I thought he was the one. I felt so much love for him and compassion. My feelings were so strong, but now after what happened, I don't know what you feel when you know. I thought I did know, and look what happened! People say you will know, but now I don't even know what that means, because I thought I did know and I did not. My advice to you if you want it is to really take the time to think if that person is the person who makes you feel good, and happy with every aspect of your life. I don't mean that another person should ultimatley make you happy cause that is something you must do for yourself, hopefully you know what I mean So, just to say that if this woman or man is the person that supports you and loves you for you and doesn't try to change you, than maybe you need to consider the wiffee or the hubby.

I hope this helps!!

[loggyNyc]

What's up Kinetic,

That's a good question. I Feel, Love comes in differently for some people. For some people, it could be that luck or that love at first sight thing that destiny brings ya together. You meet a particular person and that person has everything that you've been looking for. Then you have the other way where you are feeling this person as wifey, but you have to let them go through some tests before even going there. I'm talking about the disrespect test, the honesty test etc... So it all depends, but eventually you will know who because of your feelings. When you know that, that person is the one, you will have totally different feelings. I'm talking about some type of special feelings. I'm talking from experience, but you have to chose them right!!! Keep your eyes open kid!! Look to see if this person fits all of your qualifications. Later..

[This message has been edited by loggyNyc (edited 28 September 2000).]

[Kinetic]

thanks,yo.
I agree in the most part with the both of you, but I'm still being madd cautios...maybe its good,maybe it ain't. It's hard as hell trying to see through people nowadays,you know? They seem so right at first, as was mentioned earlier, but then they turn out to be doodoo.
Maybe time is all we can depend on anymore..but at the same time we could be wasting so much time on the wrong ones....MAN!!! this isht is all messed up. Help me out...especially if you already met that person and are happy as hell!!

vexxed and stressed! lol. just playin'
'netic

-thanks again.