HOW TO HELP HIM TRUST AGAIN!

[littleMiss_Juana]

Ive been with my boyfriend for a month now and i know that it hasnt been a long time but i dont know what to do to make the relationship work! of course i try my best to make every thing work out but the problem is that im not to patient. the relationship is working fine now, but he is very hesatant to being in a seriuos relationship because hes been played numerous times. and he thinks that im going to do the same and im not. I really care about him and want to be there for him. when we talk to each other he says things that that to me sounds like theres no future for him and I. I dont think he knows that but thats the message im getting. I dont want to spend to much of my life time on building a relationship with this guy if thats not what he wants. not saying that hes not worth my time because he is but i just want to make sure that im worth his. so how can i help him on trusting again? help me please!

[PRican4life]

Originally Posted by ;95786

Ive been with my boyfriend for a month now and i know that it hasnt been a long time but i dont know what to do to make the relationship work! of course i try my best to make every thing work out but the problem is that im not to patient. the relationship is working fine now, but he is very hesatant to being in a seriuos relationship because hes been played numerous times. and he thinks that im going to do the same and im not. I really care about him and want to be there for him. when we talk to each other he says things that that to me sounds like theres no future for him and I. I dont think he knows that but thats the message im getting. I dont want to spend to much of my life time on building a relationship with this guy if thats not what he wants. not saying that hes not worth my time because he is but i just want to make sure that im worth his. so how can i help him on trusting again? help me please!

First of all, you guys have been going out to little to go into the relationship to serious. Relationships take time to grow and to be productive it needs work from you as well as your boyfriend. And trust can make your relationship stronger. You just need to find a right time to sit and have a serius talk with your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. You should also ask him what he's going for in life and ask him questions like...."If we get into something serious in the future, what will you do to support me or a family if we ever have one?" You can re-phrase it in your own words. You guys just need to communicate more about things that are of importance. Let each other know how you feel about each other and come to an agreement together. Well hope this was good advice