GIVE ME YOUR OPINION NICELY

[bisexual]

HOMBRE PUERTORIQUENO CASADO 34 ANOS Y SU MUJER 36 ANOS LLEVA 5 ANOS FELIZMENTE CASADO Y LA QUIERE MUCHO, PERO COMO SIEMPRE HAY UN PERO EL HOMBRE FELIZMENTE CASADO CON SU MUJER BORICUA TIENE UN AMANTE PERO ESTA AMANTE ES UN HOMBRE PUERTORIQUENO 34 ANOS Y LLEVAN 5 MESES YA DE RELACIONES
OCULTAS, YO QUIERO A MI MUJER BASTANTE POR QUE ME HACE FELIZ Y ME LLENA POR COMPLETO EN TODO LO QUE SE DICE UNA MUJER BORICUA, PERO AL MISMO INSTANTE NO QUERIA CAER EN LA TENTACION QUE SE QUE ES DEL DIABLO? PERO CAE, QUE QUEDE CLARO QUE YO SI TUVE UNA AVENTURA EN SAN JUAN CUANDO TENIA 18 ANOS CON UN PROMINET ABOGADO DE PUERTO RICO QUE ACTUALMENTE ES EL ABOGADO DEL GOBERNADOR ACTUAL, Y CON ESE SENOR TUVE MI PRIMER EXPERIENCIA CON UN HOMBRE, Y DESDE ESA NO HE TENIDO RELACION CON MAS NINGUN OTRO HOMBRE HASTA 5 MESES QUE CONOCI A ESTE BORICUA, EN EL HOSPITAL DONDE TRABAJO, NO LO LLEVE RAPIDO A LA CAMA SE TARDO MES Y MEDIO HASTA CUANDO PASO LO QUE PASO, PERO ESTOY CONFUNDIDO Y NO SE QUE HACER, SI NO ME VAS A DAR UNA BUENO CONSEJO, O INSULTOS POR FAVOR NO DEJES CONTESTACIONES, SI NO TE GUSTA EL TOPICO NO LO HUBIERAS LEIDO.

[Italia_Lena]

Originally posted by bisexual
HOMBRE PUERTORIQUENO CASADO 34 ANOS Y SU MUJER 36 ANOS LLEVA 5 ANOS FELIZMENTE CASADO Y LA QUIERE MUCHO, PERO COMO SIEMPRE HAY UN PERO EL HOMBRE FELIZMENTE CASADO CON SU MUJER BORICUA TIENE UN AMANTE PERO ESTA AMANTE ES UN HOMBRE PUERTORIQUENO 34 ANOS Y LLEVAN 5 MESES YA DE RELACIONES
OCULTAS, YO QUIERO A MI MUJER BASTANTE POR QUE ME HACE FELIZ Y ME LLENA POR COMPLETO EN TODO LO QUE SE DICE UNA MUJER BORICUA, PERO AL MISMO INSTANTE NO QUERIA CAER EN LA TENTACION QUE SE QUE ES DEL DIABLO? PERO CAE, QUE QUEDE CLARO QUE YO SI TUVE UNA AVENTURA EN SAN JUAN CUANDO TENIA 18 ANOS CON UN PROMINET ABOGADO DE PUERTO RICO QUE ACTUALMENTE ES EL ABOGADO DEL GOBERNADOR ACTUAL, Y CON ESE SENOR TUVE MI PRIMER EXPERIENCIA CON UN HOMBRE, Y DESDE ESA NO HE TENIDO RELACION CON MAS NINGUN OTRO HOMBRE HASTA 5 MESES QUE CONOCI A ESTE BORICUA, EN EL HOSPITAL DONDE TRABAJO, NO LO LLEVE RAPIDO A LA CAMA SE TARDO MES Y MEDIO HASTA CUANDO PASO LO QUE PASO, PERO ESTOY CONFUNDIDO Y NO SE QUE HACER, SI NO ME VAS A DAR UNA BUENO CONSEJO, O INSULTOS POR FAVOR NO DEJES CONTESTACIONES, SI NO TE GUSTA EL TOPICO NO LO HUBIERAS LEIDO.

Hola,

Unfortunatly my Espanol is not good enough to know what you have posted, but I would like to give you my honest opinion of what it is you are asking....can you maybe translate this for me??

Thanks

[bisexual]

I AM PUERTORICAN 34 YEARS OLD, PROFESIONAL NURSE AND MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS WITH MY WIFE WHO ALSO IS PUERTORICAN. HERE WE GO, WHEN I WAS 18 I EXPERIENCE MY FIRST MALE SEX INTERCOURSE WITH ANOTHEER MALE, AND AFTHER THAT I NEVER DID AGAIN, INTO 5 MONTH AGO THAT I STARTED TO SEE THIS PUERTORICAN MALE AND BEEN HAVING RELATIOSHIP WITH HIM, LET ME CLEAR ITS BEEN 16 YEARS BEFORE I HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN, IT WAS NOT APPEAL TO BE WITH ANOTHER MALE. I MEET THIS PUERTORICAN WHERE I WORK, HE ALSO IS A MALE NURSE, I HAVE NOT BEEN WITH HIM TO A GAY BAR HERE IN SOUTH BEACH, DUE TO DONT LIKE THE BAR SEEN, BUT HE HAS BEEN WITH ME TO STRAIGHT BARS AND CLUBS, HE DOSEN'T LOOK GAY AT ALL, IF YOU SEE HIM YOU COULND'T SAID THAT HE IS GAY, AND AFTHER GOING OUT WITH HIM TO THE CLUBS(STAIGHT) NOT GAY, WE BECAME CLOSER DUE TO HE WORKS WITH ME AND HE WORK THE ER DEPARTMENT, WE GO OUT LO LUNCH, TAKE OUR BREAKS TOGETHER AND NOTHING MORE. ONE NIGHT WE WENT TO HOLLIGANS TO HAVE COUPLES BEERS AND SOMETHING TO EAT AND WHAT HE DID HE LEFT HIS CAR IN THE HOSPITAL AND WE WENT IN MY JAGUAR AND RETURNING BACK TO THE HOPITAL EMPLOYEES PARKING ALOT HE KISS ME AND I DID RESPONDED, THAT DOSEN'T MEAN THAT EVERY FRIEND THAT I HAVE KISS ME, NO THAT IS NOT IT, WHAT HAPPEN IS I THINK WE BOTH FIND BOTH OF OUR PERSON ATRACTIVE, AND FRON THERE STARTED. WE DON'T GO OUT EVERY WEEKEND NOR I SEE HIM EVERY DAY OUT OF WORK, HE UNDESTAND I AM MARRY AMD HE IS NOT ASKING FOR ANYTHING OR NO PRESSURE AT ALL. I DO SEE HIM AT WORK BECOUSE HE WORK WITH ME, BUT WE SEE EACH OTHER EVERY TWO WEEKS, AND ENJOY THE TIME WE HAVE, I WOULD LIKE A NICE OPINION AND IF ANYONE READING DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAID WELL DON'T ANSWER. THAT IS THE TRANSLATION THAT YOU REQUESTED. TAKE CARE THE BISEXUAL

[Italia_Lena]

First of all, I want to thank you for taking the time out to translate this for me.

In my opinion, I do not personally choose "bisexuality" but I don't place judgement on those who do. So to me that is not an issue here. The issue I do believe exists is that you have cheated on your spouse. The attraction is there and the kiss did happen

That is not really a good thing. I think you should be up front and honest with your wife. Maybe you could try to look deeper into the reasons why you feel the way you do. There maybe things in your life that ARE NOT working for you, try to find out why and how you can change that. If you are making the choice to be bisexual, the choice of protected sex should go along with that. For your sake and everyone else involved. Ask yourself how you would feel if your wife cheated on you with another hombre or mujere for that matter! You would probably feel betrayed or some sort of unhappiness.

I know you probably feel like you have not cheated on her, but IN MY OPINION, I feel like you have. You owe it to her and yourself to reconsider all of this. THINK HARD ABOUT IT, AND REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE INVOLVED!

[bisexual]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME ALSO TO FOR YOUR ADVISE AND YOUR OPINION.


LET ME TELL YOU I AM BREAKING MY HEAD IF I SHOULD TELL MY WIFE, I DON'T WANT TO TELL HER CAUSE I WANT TO QWORK OUT THINGS FOR US, BUT IN THE OTHER HAND I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE THE OTHER PERSON. DON'T THINK I DON'T HAVE A HEART, I DO I THINK IT WILL BE PAINFUL FOR HER IF I LET HER KNOW THAT I HAVE A MALE RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER MAN. I LOVE MY WIFE AND SEXUALLY IAM VERY SATISFY WITH HER I DON'T KNOW WHY I AM LOOKING FOR NOTHING ELSE AS YOU CAN SEE I AM VERY CONFUSED. THE BISEXUAL

[Italia_Lena]

Hi again!

I am glad to give you my opinion. I don't expect you to do what I say to. I just hope you can gather some helpful insight from my replies. I do see that you are very confused. It is quite clear to me in your post. You say that you love your wife, I cannot doubt that. You still should try to tell her, only because the longer this goes on the harder it will become. What I gather from your post is that you are afraid to tell her for fear you will lose her. You can't predict her reaction, you are not a mind reader. I know if I were her I would definatley be crushed to hear that my husband is interested in another hombre. Like I said before, I do not choose that type of life style so it is hard for me to actually KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. I am doing MY best however, to give you clear and fair opinions and information that you can either choose to take or choose not too.

Good luck with this situation and I will check back to see how things are with you. If you want to ask me anything else please feel free to do so!

Have a Happy Thanksgiving

Tu amiga

[bisexual]

HEY HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY.

THANKS AGAIN FOR THE ADVISED, AND YOU ARE RIGHT I AM VERY CONFUSED, YOU KNOW WHAT I AM REALLY SCARED TO TELL HER CAUSE HER REACTION, THAT SHE WILL LEAVE ME YOU ARE RIGHT, BECOUSE I DON'T WANT TO BE BY MYSELF AND DON'T WANT TO START AGAIN FROM THE BOTTOM, DO I SOUND SELFISH, I DO DONT I
FROM A POINT OF VIEW OF A WOMAN WHAT WILL BE HER REACTION AND TELL PLEASE HOW CAN I TELL HER, SHOULD I WAIT AFTHER THANKSGIVING OR CHRISTMAS, NEW YEAR, WHEN I SHOULD TELL AND HOW? PLEASE HELP ME