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Old 2nd December 2000, 12:19
Ojosdulces Ojosdulces is offline
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well i have a dilema thats bothering me for the past 2 years... i am a 22 year old puertorican woman residing in laredo texas.. the problema with me is that i have like a phobia for love and the art of making love.. i feel that everyone who i fall in love with is going to hurt me in one way or another.. Recently i let a guy leave cause he was expecting something more seriously with me and i couldn't...it something stronger than me.. its more like a phobia for love... yo digo que talves por que antes me he enamorado y no he sido correspondida y he salido bien lastimada pero lo dudo por que esto que yo siento es mas que un simple miedo.. es una fobia a estar enamorada y a tener relaciones con alguien..me imagino que cualquier hombre que se me acerca es para acerme dano y por lo mismo me cierro a cualquier relacion.. aver si ustedes me pueden dar el consejo mas adecuado para este problema que tengo
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Un Boricua De Corazon
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Old 12th December 2000, 15:10
julievander julievander is offline
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Smile no need to be afraid!

Well I know how you feel. Well I used to be so scared after I had to say goodbye to the man that I thought would be the only one I could ever love or make love to. This is not true. The truth is its all about letting go of the past just remember who you are and what you like, I'm not saying its easy and I know it takes time, trust me I'm not completely healed but I do know that I expect more from a partner now and that I will not settle for less. We just have to learn how to turn our fears into our strengths. Dont close yourself up to love, because you want to be ready when it comes. Hope you do ok!

Boriqua de corazon y alma!!!!

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Old 30th December 2000, 12:50
salserito1 salserito1 is offline
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todo va bien ojosdulce con un nombre tan dulce asi no debes de tener miedo mamita si necesitas un amigo aqui estoy porque soy salesman de dia y consejero de noche
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Old 1st January 2001, 13:39
Poncepr68 Poncepr68 is offline
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Es algo normal que una persona se sienta como tu te sientes despues de que una persona te haya lastimado o traicionado. Se llama estar a la defensiva aunque no digo que bajes la guardia pero tienes que soltar el pasado y seguir hacia lante.
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Old 9th January 2001, 18:24
boricuaroman2000 boricuaroman2000 is offline
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hola ojos dolce i'm sorry you feel that way but not every man is out to hurt you or just after you for your body parts. there are alot of good guys out there im one of them and iv'e had my heart broken a couple of times.
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