JENNIFER VS. DAYANARA JUST BECAUSE OF MARC ANTHONY

[dulceAMOR]

DO YOU THINK THAT WHAT JENNIFER LOPEZ DID WAS WRONG OR IT DOESNT REALLY MATTER? DO U THINK SHE DESTROYED A FAMILY TO MAKE HER OWN (WHICH I THINK IS SELFISH FROM HER PART)? I DIDNT CARE BEFORE HOW MANY MEN SHE MARRIED AND SLEEPED WITH, WHO CARES ANYWAYS IS HER LIFE, BUT WHEN SHE DESTROYS A FAMILY SPECIALLY INVOLVING KIDS, I THINK THAT IS SO WRONG. I KNOW SHE IS HUMAN LIKE EVERYONE ELSE BUT WHAT SHE DID AS A CELEBRITY IS NOT A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR THE WORLD, SPECIALLY IF YOUNG GIRLS LOVE HER AS A ROLE MODEL. THIS ALSO GOES FOR MARC ANTHONY.

[blatina7]

FINALLY!!! How come some people think that what she did is ok? I never really cared for JLO (of should I say JHO)
but I figured she was doing her thing so hey more power to her. Except that she got involved with a married man. I have no respect for any women who destroys a family. Wether there are kids involved or not, if the guy is married then he already has a family. Marc Anthony used to be my favorite singer. Then he got together with JHO and I will no longer buy his music. If I have no respect for a woman who destroys a family. I have less respect for the man who fell for it. He should've known better. First of all, if you're not happy in your relationship, then finish things off before moving on. Don't you think?

You have to remember that Marc Anthony and Jennifer Lopez grew up together. They were friends and dated before either one was famous. So this really wasn't a situation where a tramp stole another woman's husband.

That said, it's still not right. But you know how people are when they become famous and "entitled" they believe they can do anything without recourse. And of course that is not true, especially with matters of the heart. Someone loses, and it looks as if Dayanara and the child lose out.

Dayanara really started slipping looks-wise these past few years and I'm sure (speaking as a man) that did play a hand in it all, considering how many more lengths Lopez goes through to make herself look good. But that past relationship set the table for that.

LOL, I have a feeling I am going to probably have a situation like that with a woman who was Jennifer Lopez to my Marc Anthony, although I hope not..

[blatina7]

Do you really think Dayanara was letting herself go as far as looks go? I think she's naturally pretty, while Jennifer has to go to great lenghts to look pretty. At the same time, when a person meets someone else while in a relationship they start finding faults with the person they're involved. And I mean things that weren't an issue before all of a sudden it's what makes them leave them.

It's just my personal opinion. I can understand if you have a history with a person prior to you making it big. It's like you have a mutual understanding and appreciate each other for who you really are.
But at the same time you have to respect the person you're with. You have to respect your vows to each other. If you no longer love them, then tell them.

And what exactly did you mean when you said that you might be going through the same thing?
If it is... please be honest with the one you're with.